A lot of people, self included, drink to feel seen
People aren’t necessarily just screw-ups. There’s usually an emotional reason behind it. Continue Reading
Friends
Just text some of your friends periodically. Check in. Be a human being.
It’s not that hard, and it changes lives. Continue Reading
Try to keep your work friends after you leave (it ain’t easy)
When you leave a job, it’s notoriously hard to remain good friends with ex-coworkers. But damn, you should definitely try. Continue Reading
What are the expectations of friendship?
As you move through life, move away from some people, have kids/don’t have kids, and more … what should you expect from others? Continue Reading
Nothing external fixes you until you fix yourself
The external won’t put you on a rainbow and take you to the promised land. It starts with you. Continue Reading
The bottom line on most stuff: people prioritize what they want to prioritize
This is where the “I’m always so busy!” argument kind of collapses. Continue Reading
182 months later, it’s the same water
Get by with a little help from your friends. Continue Reading
Friendship at work is much more of a nuanced issue than we admit
We tend to assume friendships at work are universally good, but that’s not really the deal. Continue Reading