What matters is the moment AFTER the moment

It’s not about getting through the shit. It’s about what you do once you’re initially through. Continue Reading

I graduated college 15 years ago. A lot of shit’s changed.

I’m divorced, one of my best friends is dead, and I’m trying to thrive. What does it all mean, y’all? Continue Reading

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Age-wise, 30 to 35 is where lives will get divergent

There’s a seven-or-so-year span where most of your connections are going to shift in some way, often majorly. Continue Reading

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Life is random, or how The Butterfly Effect finds us all

At the time, a decision seems small. Years later, it turns out it changed your whole life. Continue Reading

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My 10 most-viewed posts of 2017

People like to read about sex, moving, and making better decisions? Continue Reading

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Be thankful for the journey (even when it sucks)

The whole path ultimately constitutes your life. Continue Reading

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The five year plan should be a relic by now

Five year plan

Compare your life on October 17, 2012 to now and let’s talk about the relevance of this concept. Continue Reading

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RIP, Nicky Joe “Squid” Quinonez (1981-2017)

RIP Squid

Paying tribute. Continue Reading