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Most people will not care about stuff related to YOU unless in some way it benefits THEM; remember this.

I mutter “No one cares” often to myself, especially as I drive around. It’s not totally true, but it’s truer than we admit. Continue Reading

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The drinking vs. no-drinking checklist

This is me, trying. Continue Reading

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What if we thought of “service” in the context of loneliness?

A soup kitchen vs. reaching out to a friend? (Or both.) Continue Reading

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Texas, Year 7: Reinvention and cancellation

A pivot year, perhaps. Plus: bought a house, got married. Continue Reading

The Instagram vs. IRL problem

Are we headed to a good place with social media? Continue Reading

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The peril of the check box lifestyle

A ring, a baby, or a threesome. Continue Reading

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People do want to feel as if they matter

Just try to make others feel this way. Continue Reading

A lot of people, self included, drink to feel seen

People aren’t necessarily just screw-ups. There’s usually an emotional reason behind it. Continue Reading