Trump vs. Biden is consequential, but guys, it’s not the end of your life either way

Big-time, top-of-ticket elections are important, absolutely. But do they define the rest of your existence? No. Continue Reading

Here would be a video from my wedding

Got married on 10/17/2020. Here’s a video from it. Enjoy! Continue Reading

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So, what’s it like to get married a second time, eh?

I got married the first time on March 16, 2013. The second time was October 17, 2020. What does one learn and feel on a second? Continue Reading

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Welcome to Wedding Week: A second one (for me), in the middle of a goddamn pandemic

I ain’t unique in this by any means, but here are some observations on doing a second wedding during COVID. Continue Reading

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Life: What’s old is often new again, or a reflection on poker and Quakers

Stories about poker, about weddings, about Quakers, about renting vs. buying, and about fancy cheese show how weird life is. Continue Reading

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BabyLand is a gated community in more ways than one

The game changes for people when they have kids and some of their friends don’t. But how, and can the situation be any better? Continue Reading

Do we think the world is getting better or worse?

The world (or at least America) can feel like it’s collapsing with COVID and schools and polarization. But what about the whole world? Continue Reading

The May 16, 2017 story: We need to make more effort in knowing what people are going through

Almost 14 years to the day after I graduated from college, I was sitting at a bar solo post-divorce. Here’s what I ruminated on. Continue Reading