Nothing external fixes you until you fix yourself

The external won’t put you on a rainbow and take you to the promised land. It starts with you. Continue Reading →

The summer of personal accountability

I want to get to a better version of self, and am wondering if you’d help. Continue Reading →

Let’s talk about having a healthy relationship with alcohol for a second

Ted Bauer Wreck

Cards on the table. Continue Reading →

What we don’t discuss is that you also divorce the friends

By the time a relationship is ready for divorce, the relationship is fairly broken. But what happens to the friends you shared? Continue Reading →

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The familial vs. broader society disconnect

How we make decisions with our families and how we want to be seen when posting online are often very, very different. Continue Reading →

Your whole life will probably shift in two years, and that’s OK

Humanity is mostly about being adaptable anyway. Continue Reading →

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The bottom line on most stuff: people prioritize what they want to prioritize

This is where the “I’m always so busy!” argument kind of collapses. Continue Reading →

182 months later, it’s the same water

Get by with a little help from your friends. Continue Reading →