Male friendships: Shift the paradigms and temper the expectations

Christmas cards, BYU, Divorces, WaPo, and much more. Continue Reading

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40th Birthday Post: The 10 things I want to figure out (accomplish?) by 50

These lists can get awfully self-indulgent, but I’ll try not to do that here. Continue Reading

The Blunder Years, Episode 78: A new marriage

An audio telling of life, love, hot springs, hot tubs, Facebook blocks, and more. Continue Reading

Here would be a video from my wedding

Got married on 10/17/2020. Here’s a video from it. Enjoy! Continue Reading

Try to keep your work friends after you leave (it ain’t easy)

When you leave a job, it’s notoriously hard to remain good friends with ex-coworkers. But damn, you should definitely try. Continue Reading

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So, what’s it like to get married a second time, eh?

I got married the first time on March 16, 2013. The second time was October 17, 2020. What does one learn and feel on a second? Continue Reading

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Welcome to Wedding Week: A second one (for me), in the middle of a goddamn pandemic

I ain’t unique in this by any means, but here are some observations on doing a second wedding during COVID. Continue Reading

The abandonment of adult friendships

It’s sad when once-relevant friendships end over things that aren’t relevant, and that seems common in Internet-fighting modernity. Continue Reading