What we don’t discuss is that you also divorce the friends

By the time a relationship is ready for divorce, the relationship is fairly broken. But what happens to the friends you shared? Continue Reading →

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The familial vs. broader society disconnect

How we make decisions with our families and how we want to be seen when posting online are often very, very different. Continue Reading →

182 months later, it’s the same water

Get by with a little help from your friends. Continue Reading →

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Four years, two lives, one realization

I moved to Texas on July 14, 2014. A lot has changed. Continue Reading →

What matters is the moment AFTER the moment

It’s not about getting through the shit. It’s about what you do once you’re initially through. Continue Reading →

I graduated college 15 years ago. A lot of shit’s changed.

I’m divorced, one of my best friends is dead, and I’m trying to thrive. What does it all mean, y’all? Continue Reading →

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Age-wise, 30 to 35 is where lives will get divergent

There’s a seven-or-so-year span where most of your connections are going to shift in some way, often majorly. Continue Reading →

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Life gets a lot easier when you realize how many people are full of shit

A path through the muck. Continue Reading →