“We live in a machine that is designed to get us to neglect what’s important about life.”

Depression and anxiety come from how we think we’re supposed to live vs. how we really should. Continue Reading

The promise and the peril of drinking by yourself

If it makes no health or fiscal sense, why do it? There are reasons. Continue Reading

Male friendships: Shift the paradigms and temper the expectations

Christmas cards, BYU, Divorces, WaPo, and much more. Continue Reading

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The Blunder Years, Episode 75: Is it OK for guys to be depressed?

I’m a guy, and I often feel lonely and sad. Is that OK to discuss, however? And we shift society’s views on this? Continue Reading

Loneliness and the rise of the partisan fringe

We often look at fringe groups and think “Gah, they’re crazy!” That’s potentially true. What if they are just lonely and seeking? Continue Reading

Our COVID mental health reckoning … or not?

The prevailing idea about “post-COVID” is that we’d see a big mental health decline, but that’s something with more nuance than we realize. Continue Reading

The Blunder Years, Episode 30: “How’s the crazy?”

Work has never been the most “woke” place when it comes to mental health issues, and that’s largely the focus of this podcast episode. Continue Reading

The Blunder Years, Episode 24: On male anxiety and depression

Male anxiety probably needs to be discussed a little bit more than it currently is. So, here’s 31 minutes where it does come up. Continue Reading