What we don’t discuss is that you also divorce the friends

By the time a relationship is ready for divorce, the relationship is fairly broken. But what happens to the friends you shared? Continue Reading

182 months later, it’s the same water

Get by with a little help from your friends. Continue Reading

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Four years, two lives, one realization

I moved to Texas on July 14, 2014. A lot has changed. Continue Reading

What matters is the moment AFTER the moment

It’s not about getting through the shit. It’s about what you do once you’re initially through. Continue Reading

I graduated college 15 years ago. A lot of shit’s changed.

I’m divorced, one of my best friends is dead, and I’m trying to thrive. What does it all mean, y’all? Continue Reading

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20-40-60 Rule, or how to embrace that no one really gives a shit

20-40-60 rule

Some ways to think on who’s invested in you. Continue Reading