The Blunder Years, Episode 29: Early-20s misguided friends to late-30s analyzing each other

17 years after becoming friends, me and Diana try to analyze each other using in-market assessment tools. Holler. Continue Reading →

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Every crisis seems terrible. Stuff gets better, I promise.

Whether it’s divorce or a global health pandemic, humans are adaptable creatures — and they get through the tough times. Honestly. Continue Reading →

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So much of work is just about pretending to be an adult

We want work to be this virtuous, important thing in our lives — but in reality it’s often just a place we go and pretend to be adults. Continue Reading →

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Consistent, massive layoffs do not make you a good business dude (sorry)

Layoffs should not be considered “strategic.” While they save a company money, they do a bunch of harm. Can we realize that yet? Continue Reading →

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That last normal day

When you think the shit has completely hit the fan for you, the reality is usually that it’s just the beginning of something else. Continue Reading →

The Blunder Years, Episode 17: Listening vs. fixing in relationships and getting tapped out

You’re in a relationship. Your partner comes home. Vents about the day. Should you listen, or attempt to FIX? Heady questions. Continue Reading →

The Blunder Years, Episode 16: “I’m not doing as well as so-and-so” (+ gender reveals, exes, more)

Gender reveals — or should we call them anatomy reveals? — and FOMO, childbirth, and more. Continue Reading →

The Blunder Years, Episode 15: How to mess up your 30s (and how to get it back)

I spent chunks of my 30s investing in the wrong relationships and elements, and it’s important to be transparent on that. Continue Reading →